You Tube has a mixed bag of videos on basic listening skills. This short one, "Effective Listening Skills" is amongst the better of them. The presenter makes six great points around the acrostic LISTEN. It runs out after 2' 30" - the last 50" is promoting a web link. For that, this "listening" video is a great primer on the subject.
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