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Listening Churches and Individuals are Generous

28/9/2013

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A message shared during worship at All Saints, Haitaitai, Wellington
at 9am & 10:30am on Sunday 9 September, 2013

Scripture Readings
1 Timothy 6:6-19; Luke 16:19-31

Two weeks ago I spoke about the Seeking Church. We had noted in the Gospel of the day that Jesus had been meeting and eating with some undesirables and winning them over. However his friends and his critics were noticing that this was not the kind of thing a Rabbi should do. The Gospel however noted twice that there is joy in heaven over one sinner who repents. God seems to think differently from some upholders of custom. 

Last week, had I been with you, I would have spoken about the Faithful Church. The Church and Christian who refuses to compromise like the unfaithful steward will be powerful and effective. Uncompromising integrity will be the hallmark of the Faithful Church.

Today after reading the Gospel about Lazarus and the rich man, we note that the Listening Church will get it and be caring, kind, generous and loving - a body of individuals who make a powerful difference because they are prompted by the Spirit to be a healing presence.

So the Listening Church is a Generous Church.

It attends to need wherever it is found.

It listens to the Spirit of God.

It listens to itself and notices the movements of the Spirit.

It is therefore responsive in generous and life-giving ways.

Last weekend I was part of the leadership team during a 4 Day SGM Retreat at the Island Bay, Our Lady's Home of Compassion. Now I have been involved in many live-in Retreats over the years. However, this one stood out for me for the way in which the 17 of us involved experienced warmth and compassion oozing, as it were, out of the walls of our rooms. While there I learned that this place had been a hospital in times past and that it is home to a community of Catholic Sisters - the Sisters of Compassion founded by the French Mother Aubert who is being considered for canonisation currently! Without reservation I can assert that our experience, it wasn't just mine, attests to the Spirit's present and compassion in a very deep way. The place and its people exhibited extraordinary generosity.

Contrast this with our Gospel passage today.

Lazarus is a very poor beggar who for a while before he died dwelt at the gate of a very rich man.

He found sustenance by eating out of the rich man's rubbish bin.

Not only that, his poor diet meant he had weeping sores.

The rich man was content for the dogs at the gate to lick Lazarus's sores.

The rich man in the story was so self-absorbed and neglectful of following the law and the prohets that he ignored the poor beggar's plight.

His faith was devoid of compassion for Lazarus when he had an opportunity to relieve his intense suffering.

Of course their roles were reversed in the after-life, however I don't think this story is principally about the Christian theology of heaven and hell.

Rather it reminds us that God's call is to act with caring and generosity in the present. If we are in a position to be caring and generous of another (or the creation) our Christian responsibility is to just do it!

The Evangelical church can loose sight sometimes of this challenge. In its focus on justification by faith and God's free gift of eternal life, it can be neglectful, as the rich man was, of offering generous compassion. Let us remember that Paul in Ephesians 2:8-10 writes, "8 For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith – and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God – 9 not by works, so that no one can boast. 10 For we are God’s handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do." Let's hold the tension, perhaps better than sometimes we do. Yes we are saved by faith; however we are called by God therefore to do good works!

v.18 of the Epistle (1Tim. 6) reads, "Instruct them to do as many good deeds as they can and to help everyone. remind the rich to be generous and share what they have."

So the question for us today is, "Who will we share with and be generous to today?"

I want to show you a video that depicts 5 scenarios that model everyday ways we might live the Scriptures when they invite us to be sharing, kind and generous...
The video is a primer that helps us to enter practically into generosity in everyday ways. We can readily identify, most of us, with these scenarios and the challenges they present. The challenge is to make it a daily habit to live like this. And institutionally too, in a spirit of generosity as we listen to the Spirit.

May I close with my favourite Scripture that seems to me to say it all in nutshell, Ephesians 4:32 (NIVUK), "Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you."


Love and Peace,
Terry Alve
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Dr Alexander Shaia Returning to NZ

15/12/2012

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Alexander Shaia with his pilgrimmage Compestela
Dr Alexander Shaia who was in New Zealand during 2011-12, is preparing to return to New Zealand from his home in the USA.

Alexander who is a spiritual director, psychotherapist and theologian blessed many in New Zealand during his earlier extended stay. His studies on the Gospels around the theme of Quadratos were at the Centre of his teaching earlier. 

After further ministry in the USA this year, Alexander walked the Way of St James - a 600 mile walk from southern France through Spain from September to November. There is a comprehensive pictorial record of this on Alexanders Facebook pages https://www.facebook.com/ashaia I am sure he would be happy to have you as a "friend" if you want to view and digest this - tell him Terry Alve sent you!

My understanding is that Alexander shortly will make another extended stay in NZ and Australia. He will be in Auckland during Easter 2013 conducting a 72 hour retreat. He also wrote in Facebook on Dec. 8th,

Final morning of mything and exploring the Great Tree within and amongst us but especially in our hands. And yes Josie and I are planning now how we may take this work literally around the world beginning with NZ and AU. Consider joining us.
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from A Shaia's Great Tree Retreat Dec. 2012
Pray for this man of God as he returns to be among us and consider joining him as he ministers around New Zealand in the next few months. Contact Terry Alve (iCareResources) for more information.
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2013 Spiritual Growth Ministries Calendar of Events (NZ)

15/12/2012

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2013 SGM Calendar Online (coming)
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The 2013 Calendar of Events has been printed recently by Spiritually Growth Ministries in New Zealand. This print version is accompanied by an online version (replacing the 2012 Calendar).

The events and information listed is organised in Regions (Northern, Central, Southern) and sub-regions within these. The Central Region is subdivided into:
  • Kapiti Coast - Wellington
  • Nelson/Marlborough

In addition to events which include: retreats, weeks of prayer, training, Enneagram, Myers Briggs Type Inventory and other contemplative spirituality opportunities; There is a wealth info about other aspects of the work of SGM in New Zealand. This includes:
  • Area Contacts
  • The SGM Journal - "Refresh"
  • Spiritual Directors' Formation programme
  • Accessibility Info
  • SGM Special Interest Papers

For more information (and to get a copy of the print version) please contact the SGM Administrator: Joanne Garton sgm@clear.net.nz or 09 267 5957



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Give Me a Word - an Online Retreat

20/7/2012

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An Innovative Way of Doing Retreat
Jan Sampson, spiritual director and associate member of the Association of Spiritual Directors, is offering an innovative approach to retreat.

For three weeks during August (2012) she is offering to lead you/us through sayings of the Desert Fathers and Mothers.

In her promo Jan writes, "In the desert we are invited to a place of deep encounter with our self and with God...."
Read more here: http://www.sgmwellington.myurl.co.nz/uploads/8/9/0/2/8902434/desert_retreat.pdf 

Perhaps we could journey together with Jan for three weeks. In the event you may like to reflect on your journey after it, using the Comments section on this Blog page...

P.S. Interested in other events like this?
Visit: http://www.sgmwellington.myurl.co.nz/1/post/2012/07/mid-winter-calendar-new-events.html

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iCare Resources Links to SGM Wellington Events Calendar

2/6/2012

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Daffodils at Gladstone
Spiritual Growth Ministries Wellington's events calendar now has a link from iCare Resources so our visitors can access the wide range of contemplative spirituality events SGM facilitates.

CALENDAR ACCESS

We can assist you to promote your contemplative spirituality event by helping you place it on this calendar and to use its associated resources. 

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Contemplative Prayer Resources

23/5/2012

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For what am I most grateful?
For what am I least grateful?
'Sleeping with Bread: Holding What Gives You Life' by Dennis Linn 
is one of the resources accessible via our Contemplative Prayer page on this website.

You'll also find on this page five (PDF) prayer leaflets authored by Sue Pickering when she was a trainer with Spiritual Growth Ministries. One of these leaflets is about the 'Examen' which refers to 'Sleeping with Bread'. 

A preface to this book on Amazon notes, "If you were to join us in either of our homes at the end of almost any evening, or if you were to attend one of our retreats, we would invite you to do with us the process described in these pages. This book is about asking ourselves two questions: For what am I most grateful? For what am I least grateful? These questions help us identify moments of consolation and desolation. We call this process the examen."

Examen is one of the contemplative prayer forms some us have been working with during our Week of Guided Prayer Retreat at Island Bay.

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Island Bay Week of Guided Prayer Retreat

21/5/2012

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St Hilda's Anglican Church, Island Bay
St Hilda's Anglican Church in Island Bay is this week hosting a week of guided prayer. The Week began yesterday (Sunday) with an opening gathering in the Church with 15 participants joining the three prayer guides from Spiritual Growth Ministries. Each participant will have a daily session of 30 minutes with one of the 'guides' before all re-gathering on Friday evening for a closing group session.

The participants are representative of the Island Bay church congregations and have undertaken in addition to the formal group and individual sessions, to spend at least 30 minutes daily in the practice of prayer.

The leadership team of Jo Anastasiadis, Adrienne Thompson and Terry Alve are all trained and registered spiritual directors who are part of a group of directors who offer these Weeks of Guided prayer around Wellington and up to the Kapiti Coast. At the same time as the Week is happening at Island Bay, another 'Week' is happening on the Victoria University Campus.

More information about these Weeks and an online registration form is available HERE.

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I Think There is a Prophet in Our Midst

2/5/2012

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Dr Alexander Shaia
I have had the opportunity twice now to be part of retreats where Dr Alexander Shaia has been the retreat director. The first was during July 2011 in Auckland where he was addressing the biennial meetings of the Association of Spiritual Directors (ANZ) and the second was last week at Pa Maria, Wellington CBD where he offered a two day retreat for local spiritual directors.

On both occasions Alexander, a liturgist, psychotherapist, theologian, spiritual director and genuine nice guy, has impressed me as a man of deep Christian faith and with great communication skills. Another of his qualifications, something that deeply informs his ministry, relates to the fact that he is first generation Lebanese with Maronite Christian roots. His intuitive feeling for and understanding of Semitic cultures is a great asset. He is essentially a commentator on the Gospels and he has coined the term Quadratos for the four questions being asked (and answered one by one) in the Gospel texts. Thus:
  • Matthew asks - How do we face change?
  • Mark asks - How do we move through suffering?
  • John asks - How do we receive joy?
  • Luke-Acts asks - How do we mature in service?
My reflections on what I have heard Alexander saying in these retreats include:
  1. Noting his quiet, measured presentation style. It is unhurried, confident, spacious, reflective - all the charisms that make for an impactful retreat. He has the beautiful gift of opening scripture and wonderfully setting it in its historical, social and theological contexts. Truly the gifting of a prophet.
  2. His optimism about the emerging generations, especially their collaborative nature encourages me. Their non-judgmental attitudes and their capacity to create a more peaceful and tolerant society and world, he suggests bodes well. These sentiments flow (I think) from his deep awareness of the pan-tribalism that undergirds John's understandings and writings. The Apostle was quite resistance to the notion that emerging Christianity be a sect within Judaism. The Church constantly has had to wrestle with this challenge.
  3. The call to widen my boundaries. Especially with regard to tolerance and understanding of others who maintain different spirituality, lifestyles, belief systems, etc. While I have come far in this regard by embracing contemplative spirituality, there is a long way to go.
To learn more about Dr Shaia who is currently in Queenstown, and his work, visit: 
http://www.quadratos.com/quadratos

You may enjoy viewing Dr Shaia's presentation style and some of his wisdom in a video offered by Spiritiual Directors International which is on the Inspirational Resources page of this website.

While he will return to the US shortly, Dr Shaia talks of returning to NZ and Australia for further ministry and time among the people down under.

Terry Alve

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